Friday, 27 March 2015

22 Things I've Learnt In 22 Years ...

Having lived on this earth for 22 years there have been many things that I've learned. I know each of us learn side rent things but we also learn a lot of the same lessons and I wanted to share with you 22 main things that I've learnt in the 22 years I've been living. 

1. If your the kind of person that I am who always seems to find a way to embarrass themselves or has plenty of awkward situations I've recently learnt that the best way to deal with that is to laugh it off instead of beating yourself up about it. 

2. Not everyone will like you, 
You can't make everyone like you, so just be yourself and accept that your not going to get along with every body. 

3. Be yourself don't pretended to be someone else to please other people, be real and don't  change anything about yourself unless it's for you! 

4. Change can be a good thing 
Sometimes change can also be a scary thing but it's also a good way to experience and learn new things.

5. Life goes too quick!
Take each day as it comes, at the end of the day life is too short appreciate each day you have and make the most of what you've got. The scary thing with life is that it can be taken away within an instant, you only live once! 
I've noticed that from the age of 16-22 those years have flown by, I would absolutely love to be those ages again it's something we take for granted and when your my age I think you'll realise how each year goes by quicker and quicker. 

6. There will be people who care and there won't be people who care.
There's a thin line between people caring and then people just being nosy make sure you know who actually cares. 

7. Nature is a beautiful thing 
Although some of what goes on in this earth isn't pretty I think we forget sometimes how amazing this world actually is and the beauty of nature 

8. It's so easy to get overly stressed but try not to over think and panic about things that aren't worth worrying about. And If they are worth worrying about take one out for yourself and try to think positively about what's going on. 

9. There will be days when you might feel  down or that nothing's going right but it's so important not to give up, keep going and don't ever lose that little bit of hope that things will get better, they will! Every body has their high and low days. 

10. This world is a pretty big place, explore it as much as you can 

11. I've learnt that you'll go through phases of having those 'fake friendships' I think that's just something that we all go through as long as you know who your true friends are 

12. Sometimes your best May never be good enough for some people but as long as you know your trying your best then that's all that matters 

13. Don't let people walk all over you, stand up for yourself and for what you believe in. 

14. They'll be a lot of moments in life when you'll feel pressured to do something but if that's something you don't want to do stick to that and don't do it just because every body else is doing it. 

15. Believing in myself is something that I've always honestly struggled with but I think that's the main way of succeeding in life. Sometimes it's hard when you have other people doubting you but try to put yourself in new frame of mind, follow your own path and believe that you can do whatever you want to do. 

16. As you get older you'll start to care less and less of what people think of you, you'll be your own person, you'll make your own decisions and you learn that it really doesn't matter if you don't fit in the crowd and in a way it's even 'cooler' if you have your own style or that you are different. 

17. Life isn't easy! 

18. Don't rely on other things or other people to make you happy, you deserve to always be happy so be happy when you wan to be. 

19. It's okay not to be okay, sometimes it's best to just let every thing out, anything that you've been bottling up inside you just let it out or have a cry over it, there's no shame in doing that.

20. Family and friends are the most important people that will ever be in your life. 

21. Life is too short not to follow your dreams, sometimes you'll have to start at the bottom to get to the top but keep going and never quit even if you fail a few times just keep pushing yourself. 

22. Never give up. 


1 comment:

  1. Great points and very true :)


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